Table of Contents
It is likely that some of the following suggestions will
make a real difference for you. Select and practise those
that fit your needs. Note that the items are not mutually
exclusive.
Anticipatory
Planning
Goals and priorities - Set realistic
goals, long- and short-term, that make for survival and
achievement, and development as a person; set
goal-related priorities for the day and week.
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Maintenance - Make provisions for your
maintenance needs, of relaxation and sleep, of exercise,
of adequate nutrition, of family and social life.
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Large tasks - Divide overwhelming tasks
into manageable chunks and see the chunks as steps on the
progress road to achievement.
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Success goals - Underset your daily
task-goals to ensure completion and success, and so
experience progress and achievement.
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Corrected practice - Use correction and
feedback to put together the final outline, case notes,
or essay.
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Breaks - Plan to take periodic breaks to
let things sink in, to recover and refresh, to reward a
success-step.
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Rewards - Plan to reward and refresh
yourself once a week or so with a special activity or
occasion.
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Time Management
Self-Monitoring - Monitor your use of
time by the hour for a week or so, analyse it in terms of
the above items.
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Scheduling - Schedule task-goals so that
they serve your larger goals and are achievable in the
time and circumstances.
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Breaks and rewards - Build into your
schedule time for breaks and rewards.
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Reviews - Provide for regular and
periodic review time.
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Maintenance - Provide time for exercise,
relaxation, sleep, and meals.
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Methods for Reducing
Anxiety
Self-Assertion - Do a realistic review
of the situation, and decide on a course of action and
carry it out; assert yourself, take charge of your life.
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Sleep habits - Cultivate methods that
enable you to get enough good sleep - wind down first and
do not read "law" in bed.
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Exercise - Get a regular period of
vigorous exercise, and then use exercise to drain off
tension.
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Relaxation - Learn physical and mental
relaxation, then notice when you are anxious and tense,
and relax.
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Quiet time - Cultivate and then use a
"quiet time" to review your situation, to compose
yourself, and to prepare for a project or situation for
the day.
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Friends - Talk to one or two friends a
day, for support and encouragement, to renew your
self-confidence and morale.
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Consultation - Help yourself by seeking
consultation with peers, instructors, or professional
counsellors.
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Positive
Thinking
Facing anxiety - Better to acknowledge
your anxiety rather than hide and choke it back; it is
normal and it may be the basis for motivation and
problem-solving; do something about excesses, and then go
on with your tasks and life.
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Success reviews - Review your
accomplishments and your positive qualities, savour them
and build up your self-confidence; you've taken hurdles
before and you will give this one your best.
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Thought control - When you get down and
brood, shout "stop" to yourself, relax with "calm", and
switch into a task or positive activity.
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Positive imagery - Cultivate and collect
positive images of success situations and peaceful and
relaxing settings, and use these to allay anxiety.
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Success steps - Focus on small
achievable tasks and see them as "success steps."
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Self-reinforcement - Congratulate
yourself and give yourself a reward for success steps and
keeping on track.
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Self-acceptance - You really are pretty
good, not perfect but who is? You are your own person,
you are OK.
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